Making Healthy Choices When it Comes to Love: June 2014

I've heard the complaints time and time again. I can't find Mr. Right or Mr. Right just don't exist anymore. Have you ever thought for a moment that just maybe we women could be the Ms's Wrong? Most women has a general list they follow when it comes to finding Mr. Right.

#1 He must not only be employed but....making mega bucks.

#2 He must not have a car but....the top of the line ride.

#3 He must be at our beck and call whenever we need him to be or else...he's cheating.

#4 He must be an good listener no matter how much we run off at the mouth...about nothing.

#5 He must be drop dead gorgeous...no exceptions.

Ladies lets be realistic.We need to take a honest look at ourselves and we will see that many of us are not driving around in an over the top vehicle or bringing in mega bucks from our jobs. Nor do we listen to every word out of some one's mouth especially if they are known to be a chatter box. Neither do we jump every time we are called upon unless of course its our boss or some other supreme authority. And last but not least, not all of us are model material with a contract pending. There are some good men out there ladies if we just dig a little deeper. There are hard working, caring,dependable, and average looking men who wants a Ms's right in their lives as well and is waiting eagerly to treat her like the queen she is. I'm not saying we should lower our standards when searching for Mr.Right but refine them a little leaving room for some imperfection. Taking a good look at ourselves should help us realize that by setting such high standards in our search we may very well be missing out on the Real Mr. Right and in return labeling ourselves as Ms. Wrong in their book.

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