Trick or Treat in Love

Halloween is almost here and kids will soon be knocking on doors. They will be dressed in a variety of costumes with their bags in tow, expecting a tasteful treat. If none is given, you best to prepare yourself for a nasty trick. Sometimes love can be a Trick or a Treat. The person in whom we fall in love with may be dressed in a costume of sincerity, honesty and faithfulness. But hidden behind the mask could be a disaster waiting to wreck our lives.

So how can you know if your new love is a Trick or a Treat? You may be surprised at the answer because it is so simple...The old Fashion Way. With Time.  Relationships today is on the fast track with dating sites and dating apps being the popular craze. People meet today and marry tomorrow so to speak. I'm sure you will say there is such a thing as love at first sight. And some couples will go on to live happily ever after but those are the exceptions not the rules.

Most of the time these fast track relationships fail because the couples find themselves committed to some one they don"t really know. The time wasn't taken to fully learn and grow together. The mask has been removed and now they see a lot of things they weren't expecting.

Take your time when it comes to finding true love so your relationship won't be a Trick but a life long Treat.


                                                       HAPPY HALLOWEEN!


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Repairing Trust When its Broken

How do you repair trust when your spouse has cheated? Or your best friend lied right to your face. What about when a family member has done you wrong. When trust is broken it has no barren as to what kind of relationship it has affected, only the fact that it happened. The security blanket so to speak has been pulled and the innocent person has fallen. Gone to a certain degree are love and respect that was once shared. Now the potent question is asked. How do I trust again? The offended person will be on high alert like a police officer walking his or her beat searching for anything out of the ordinary to occur.

So to begin the healing process the acknowledgement of  the wrong must be addressed. In Dr. Phil's words' You Can't Fix What You Don't Acknowledge.'  Discussing the issue and bringing light to what may have caused the circumstance, will steer you in the right direction of resolving the problem. If the broken trust has occurred in a marriage, the spouse who have cheated must be an open book. Cell phones and emails accounts must be easily accessible by the other partner. Reassurance is critical to regain the trust that was lost. It is just as important to forgive. Forgiveness is the key to restoring the broken relationship allowing it to move forward.

And finally, renew your commitment. Having an heart-to-heart conversation about life values, morals, loyalty and expectations will help strengthen the relationship and its foundation. Repairing trust that has been broken won't be easy by far but it's definitely worth the trouble.

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Changes & Acceptance

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, THE COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS  I CAN AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.    Reinhuld Niebuhr


This declaration is much needed in the world today. Things have change drastically within the past twenty years and so many of them have been controversial. Who haven't seen the head lines of Bruce Jenner as he revealed himself to the world as to who he really is. Him coming out as Kaitlyn has given a new voice to the word Transgender. Same Sex Marriages have also made great strides at becoming the norm in today's society. As a nation, a melting pot of diversity we must have respect for each other rather we agree or not. As people of Faith we must show love to those who are living a different life style than our own while maintaining who we are. At the end of the day God is Love. And if we love God we must also love others. We can only change ourselves and hopefully for the better. We must have the courage to put our best foot forward staying true to who we are and living in peace with those around us  to make this world a better place. A place filled with kindness, humility and acceptance and the wisdom to know the difference.


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What My Sister Didn't Know

Sisters tell each other everything....don't they?  Read this utterly twisty and addicting novel and you will find yourself enthrall in the Michael's sister world of love, lust, lies and betrayal.
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New Year Resolutions

The time has arrived! 2014 will soon be a passing memory and we will embark upon a New Year 2015. And with it comes resolutions and you know the most popular ones. Losing weight being at the top of the list. Most of us vow to lose the love handles that seemed to have settled around our waist with no plans of ever leaving. Also must of us are determined to get our finances in order by saving money or making more of it is one I desire the most. Others may proclaim to mend broken relationships or get out of bad ones. Some may declare just to be a better person in the New Year. No matter what the intentions are, New Year Resolutions are made but are seldom kept. According to surveys only about 8 percent of us successfully achieve their New Year's resolutions to 92 percent that do not. So why do we bother to make them at all? Well my theory is the new year offer new hope, new possibilities and above all a fresh new start. Do you remember as a child learning to ride your first bike? You get on, bracing yourself for the fall you hope didn't come. But when it did your mom or dad told you to get back on and try it again. Even though your fall may have been painful you were determined to give it yet another try.  And you kept trying and trying until finally you began to ride. How proud you were to have accomplished the feat. So go ahead and make those resolutions and you just might ride off into the sunset.


                                                               HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Janie DeCoster has written several novels of different genres. She invites you to check them out on amazon.com as well as barnes&noble.com. 

What My Sister Didn't Know
FRIENEMIES
A Man for Every Season Anthology (Love at Midnight)
Dark Side of Love

The Greatest Gift

The greatest gift doesn't come in a fancy box with a pretty bow. Nor does it have an extravagant price tag to dazzle before the eyes of it recipient. The greatest gift can't be tasted like the finest of wines or worn like a beautiful creation tailored by a famous designer. The greatest gift can't be substituted like splenda for sugar or margarine for butter as simple as those may be.The greatest gift is so precious it can't be returned or replaced. The greatest gift that we can give is...The Gift of Time. Time to spend with those we love. Time to cherish the memories that gathering together brings no matter what season we are in. Lets Make the Gift of Time a gift on our list this year.  Merry Christmas!

Author Janie DeCoster

Janie DeCoster has published several novels in different genres. She would love for you to check them out. They are available at amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com and all other online stores.

What Are You Afraid Of?

No matter how strong or confident we may appear to be we all have something that scares us. Be it as simple as turning on your little night light in the bedroom because you are afraid to sleep in total darkness (like me) or major relevant insecurities of the future with the threat of deadly viruses, the recurrence of school shootings and a host of other devastating world events.

 Being afraid in itself is not neccessarily a bad thing. You wouldn't stick you hand in a burning flame or stand in front of a moving bus now would you? No, our fears along with common sense protects us from hurt, harm and danger. In contrast when we let our fears take control of our lives to the point of placing invisible bars around us, this is the time that fear becomes our enemy. Fear can cripple us by taking away the ability to live a productive, happy and whole life. There is nothing wrong with being afraid, especially for the movies buffs who would be amiss without the horror films. Or for those of us who love the spell bounding reads of Stephen King and so many others authors like him who raises the beat of our hearts.

Being afraid is a part of life like any other emotion we have. It is good to be afraid sometimes so long as we don't allow our fears to dictate how we live our lives.

Joshua 1:9

"Have I not commanded you? Be Strong and courageous . Do not be frighten, and do not be dismayed for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

Janie DeCoster


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What My Sister Didn't Know

Frienemies

Love At Midnight in the Anthology A Man for Every Season

Dark Side of Love